Unnoticed

  Today, 

    I'll focus on those topics that probably go unnoticed. It doesn't mean, those things do not happen in front of our eyes. Just depends on our eyes or on our point of view. 

*Small Things:-

     How many of us pay attention to small things? Probably fewer people. And if you don't pay attention to those small things. Then it means that you don't pay attention to the beginning of anything. Many times when we have a problem in life, doesn't matter whether it is big or small. And wonder, Why this happens to me? or why only me...? 

    So the answer is only one, You never tried to pay attention to the small things that where did this trouble start? And when you have not paid attention, how will you improve it?

    I'm an introvert, a better observer, and an overthinker also. But neither any problem with telling this nor in my introverted nature. 

    Because of this nature, I have fewer friends but they are real and matter in my life. It's a million times better than those 100 fake friends on social media. "Have you heard about 80-20 principle, It's 100% true that there only 20% people who give you 80% happiness". 

    It's also an advantage of speak less. That when you speak less more to people and the more you observe, Instead laughing on their jokes like idiots.

    Well, if you take time to get the know people or make new friends. So I think, nothing wrong with it.

Actually, it helps to get a real and true relationship. 

    Sometimes I thought that I really do overthink but now, I'm used to this or Maybe it has been my habit since the beginning. An overthinking is bad, I know but sometimes it gives me great ideas. And I get to know better about something and from a different angle too. I take time for everything I do whether it's socializing, talking, etc. It seems slow but I, Think before speak and act. It gives a positive message to listeners ☺.

    

*Experience:-

    We keep our opinion, our thinking, our mentality, and our mindset on all the things which we saw and heard. But we never pay any attention to those little things, "why do we think of them like this?" 

    Our mentality is made by the experience that happened to us, it's also made by things told by our parents and teachers. 

    Sometimes their words seem wrong and our own experience seems right. Everyone has to face different incidents and experiences in their life and we learn daily something new. 

    So, how can we set our mentality with the experience of others?  

You know,

    When we are kids everything and everybody seems right to us. And when we are teenagers everything seems wrong to us. When we attain a little bit of age of maturity whatever we feel, "Right, or Wrong" actually, depends on us, That what is right and what is wrong. 

*Perfectness:-

    

    we always hear this word and from others, it's also heard that 'That guy is perfect or this is perfect.' but this thought is just a delusion and nothing else. I mean, how can anyone be perfect? You can do awesome work but can't do perfect work. 

    The truth is that meaning of perfect is actually depends on us. It may be, That if something or any work or person is perfect for you, It may not be for the others.