The Parents

 Today, 

   

I am writing on such topic which means, values and importance can be different for everyone. With whom we have the first relationship after coming to this world, Means are parents. 

    In short our parents our first teacher, our first well-wishers, our first friend, and our first Love....❤

                                                                             "Parents are not an important thing, It's everything." 

When we are the child, We share every little thing, every little talk with them. We don't need to think, we should say or not Because we know that they are standing behind us. 

    Then, one day we grew up especially in "Teenagers", we get smarter. Want to take decisions on our own. And when parents want to make us understand, we don't want to and from that moment they denied something, they became our enemies. 

    But we forget that they have also faced our age, they knew what is good and bad more than us. 

To make it clear I want to give you an example If we draw a graph of our happiness from childhood till now and see it's going up or down. More graphs will go down, isn't it....? Did we ever think? why does it happen?

              "Obviously Not" 

If your graph is going down So, you need to control and manage your emotion, need to build a strong relationship with your parents and need to listen to them Because some time happens, they aren't able to make us understand clearly Maybe we are not in the age to understand that. 

But, when we look back We found them absolutely right and It's so true....Right.  

     From this, I remind something that One day I was sitting with my mother, And she was looking at me with a loving look. I said, What.... she said, "I worry about you, you go far alone, don't know whether you eat anything outside or not.  I always pray that whatever you want to do in your future and may your all wishes come true. After this, I didn't need to say anything....☺"

 

  But....But....But, 

In some cases the situation may be different also, I mean there are also some parents who don't understand their child. You can understand me by following points-

• They hold you back from your dreams. 

                                                    Sometimes happens you want to do something and your parents want different things from you in your future. 

• They put a lot of pressure on you, Whether it is directly or indirectly.
• They're emotionally unavailable to you when you really need them. 
• Their presence overwhelms you. 
• they worsen your depression.

                                               Maybe they're too harsh on you.

• They struggle with substance abuse. 
• They have become abusive ( It may be mental, physical, emotional abuse). 
• They don't help you overcome your depression. 

                                    They don't make efforts to educate themself about depression and all that. They refuse like " you're not in depression or you don't need a therapist".

                                                

                                                                        I wrote all this it doesn't mean parents are bad and don't care about you it depends on you and your parents.